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What You Say Does Not Matter

You really can meet someone anywhere.  A lot of guys get hung up on the “what do I say to her?” part of the approach.  The truth is that it doesn’t matter.  It literally doesn’t matter what you say.  In

Foreign Language Opportunities

I have always been a lover of language.  Ever since high school when I first had to take Spanish, I’ve thought they were cool.  There’s something that fascinates my brain about the way languages are constructed and the way they

The Right and Wrong Reasons To Give Gifts

Well, it’s that time again.  It’s the holiday season and, assuming the world doesn’t end on December 21st, we will be expected to give gifts to each other this year.  I want to talk about some of the situations that

What You Must Understand About Cell Phones

The addition of cell phones to our daily lives has changed the way we communicate with each other.  This is true not only for normal social activities, but also with more flirtatious activity.  Talking on the phone has always been

Does The Kind Of Car You Drive Matter?

A lot of people think you need to have a nice car to have success with women. Luxury car salesmen will play up this angle, too, if a single man test drives one of their cars.  They’ll make a comment

Sometimes You Just Need to Let Her Go

Ever felt like you were trying really hard but your girlfriend just didn’t seem to respond in kind? Sounds like she has low interest. You can’t fight for a relationship with someone who has low interest because they just don’t

When is a relationship worth saving?

Because you can’t make a ho into a housewife (and whatever the male equivalent of that is). The reason people want to “work things out” is because they are chemically addicted to the other person. It’s the same reason heroin

How Much Does the Past Matter?

Some people are concerned about their significant other’s past and their number of partners.  Being insecure is not a good reason.  But here are some legitimate ones: 1) is it because they are insecure and need constant validation? Not someone

High or Low Energy: Which is Better? Part 2

Once you understand social dynamics, you can break all the formulas and still have success because you just have a good feel for what will work and you do it without thinking. When you start, it’s like, “ok, I gotta

High or Low Energy: Which is Better? Part 1

I was recently asked who will have better success: a loud, high energy guy, or a more reserved, quiet guy?  Which one of those is a better way to be? Short answer: Assuming both guys have equal chemistry with the